Dear Z
I recently met and befriended a married individual. We have become friends and close due to some extreme circumstances but I have found myself fantasizing about this person a lot. There have been times where they have been flirtatious in a friendly manor or touch playfully. I don't know if they are giving me signs of something more or not. I have never been even thought of being involved with someone who is married but I find myself not caring and just wanting more time with this person.
I know I should stop thinking in that way but the more I am around him the more I can't help it. What do I do? How do I move on to people who seem far less attractive, interesting and even likable than my married friend. HELP!!
Sincerely,
Conflicted!
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Dear Conflicted,
The answer is: you do not move on less attractive people! There's no such thing as friendly flirting or touching, He's definitely flirting and groping, but fear not: married men are a great choice! First of all, there already was a woman giving her seal of approval when she put a ring on their finger. Secondly, you will only get the best part of them, while somebody else will deal with them snoring, leaving their dirty laundry around or needing to be fed. Last but not least, they will always feel guilty for cheating on their wife, or for not giving you what you truly deserve, and you can use that to your own advantage.
Good luck with your new love story! And keep us posted!
Yours Truly,
I recently met and befriended a married individual. We have become friends and close due to some extreme circumstances but I have found myself fantasizing about this person a lot. There have been times where they have been flirtatious in a friendly manor or touch playfully. I don't know if they are giving me signs of something more or not. I have never been even thought of being involved with someone who is married but I find myself not caring and just wanting more time with this person.
I know I should stop thinking in that way but the more I am around him the more I can't help it. What do I do? How do I move on to people who seem far less attractive, interesting and even likable than my married friend. HELP!!
Sincerely,
Conflicted!
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Dear Conflicted,
The answer is: you do not move on less attractive people! There's no such thing as friendly flirting or touching, He's definitely flirting and groping, but fear not: married men are a great choice! First of all, there already was a woman giving her seal of approval when she put a ring on their finger. Secondly, you will only get the best part of them, while somebody else will deal with them snoring, leaving their dirty laundry around or needing to be fed. Last but not least, they will always feel guilty for cheating on their wife, or for not giving you what you truly deserve, and you can use that to your own advantage.
Good luck with your new love story! And keep us posted!
Yours Truly,
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